Oy Vey! My Son Is Gay! (2010) featured a cast of 48 tracked actors. Of these, 9 (82%) are still alive today and 2 have passed away. The oldest surviving cast member is Lainie Kazan, age 86. This film starred Lainie Kazan and Saul Rubinek.
82% still with us· verified cast19% of full cast · incl. 37 unverified
Survivorship
Cast Reunion Index: 82% still living
Avg. Age at Death: 80 yrs
Deaths by Year
2026
Cast48 members
| Person | Character | Status | DOB | Age | DOD | Age in 2010 |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
 Lainie Kazan Shirley Hirsch | Shirley Hirsch | Living | 15/05/1940 | 86 | — | 70 |
 Saul Rubinek Martin Hirsch | Martin Hirsch | Living | 02/07/1948 | 78 | — | 62 |
 Vincent Pastore Carmine Ferraro | Carmine Ferraro | Deceased | 14/07/1946 | 80 | 01/08/2026 | 64 |
 John Lloyd Young Nelson Hirsch | Nelson Hirsch | Living | 04/07/1975 | 51 | — | 35 |
 Jai Rodriguez Angelo Ferraro | Angelo Ferraro | Living | 22/06/1979 | 47 | — | 31 |
 Bruce Vilanch Uncle Max | Uncle Max | Living | 23/11/1948 | 77 | — | 62 |
 Carmen Electra Sybil Williams | Sybil Williams | Living | 20/04/1972 | 54 | — | 38 |
 Shelly Burch Teresa Ferraro | Teresa Ferraro | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Stanislav 'Slava' Medvedenko Russian Host | Russian Host | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Alexandra Mamaliger Andrea Hirsch | Andrea Hirsch | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Eddie Levi Lee Moisha | Moisha | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Kyle Deluca Anthony Ferraro | Anthony Ferraro | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
 Heiko Obermöller Nudelman | Nudelman | Living | 30/06/1974 | 52 | — | 36 |
Phyllis Silver Sophie | Sophie | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Rachel Handler Celeste | Celeste | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Patricia Henderson Margaret | Margaret | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
 Tom Fridley Nick | Nick | Living | 15/02/1965 | 61 | — | 45 |
Jerry Sciarrio Dr. Herman | Dr. Herman | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Pete Moroz Photographer | Photographer | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
 Karen-Eileen Gordon Reporter | Reporter | Living | 24/04/1964 | 62 | — | 46 |
Danny Bental Rabbi | Rabbi | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Jovan Obando Reporter | Reporter | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Leslie Lowe Alice | Alice | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Khalil Beznaiguia Bartender | Bartender | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Dillon McNaight Emmitt | Emmitt | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Jeff Scarone Jan | Jan | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Michael Adams Lance Smith | Lance Smith | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Brandon O'Neill Lonnie | Lonnie | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
| Man | Unverified | — | — | — | — | |
Richard Murken Policeman | Policeman | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Chauncey Jones Reporter | Reporter | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Svetlana Anufrieva Secretary | Secretary | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Brian Russo Skip | Skip | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Jerry L. Buxbaum Skinhead Leader | Skinhead Leader | Deceased | 30/10/1956 | 69 | — | 54 |
Scott K. Hills Neo Nazi #1 | Neo Nazi #1 | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Steve Baldwin Neo Nazi #2 | Neo Nazi #2 | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
John B. Daniels Longshoreman #1 | Longshoreman #1 | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Troy A. Jenkins Longshoreman #2 | Longshoreman #2 | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Fred Swink Big Man | Big Man | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Tony DeStefano Man at Dance Club | Man at Dance Club | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
| Child | Unverified | — | — | — | — | |
Scott Alan Berk Officer Colton (uncredited) | Officer Colton (uncredited) | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Aaron Fink Creep in Elevator (uncredited) | Creep in Elevator (uncredited) | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
 Kent Kimball Priest (uncredited) | Priest (uncredited) | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Shane Mabrey Officer Fernandis (uncredited) | Officer Fernandis (uncredited) | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Anne Lillian Mitchell Wedding Guest (uncredited) | Wedding Guest (uncredited) | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Lance Mitchell Groomsmen (uncredited) | Groomsmen (uncredited) | Unverified | — | — | — | — |
Jared Wagner Boy in Crowd (uncredited) | Boy in Crowd (uncredited) | Unverified | — | — | — | — |